Bed & Breakfast Inns vs. Hotels: We Win, Hands Down!

We spent some time over the Holidays with our family outside of Boston. Rather than displace some of my nephews, we tried the closest hotel. This was a large chain hotel on a major route west of Boston with a huge shopping center across the street. While there were several small (3 room) bed and breakfasts nearby, we thought we should see what the hotel industry was up to. What a mistake!

First of all, we should say that the room itself was newly redecorated, fairly large and well furnished. The bed was a new pillow-top king-size, and the furnishings were standard up-scale hotel furniture. There was a very large, new flat-screen TV with Hi-Def capabilities. There was also free wi-fi and good desk space with plenty of lights and a.c. outlets. It contained the typical business set up with desk and swivel office chair in addition to two other upholstered seats. The heat was the ubiquitous through the wall air conditioning/heat unit, but with a more modern temperature control on one of the walls. The bathroom was standard size, but upgraded with a stone countertop, tile floor, and bowed shower curtain rod, giving the appearance and feel of a larger bathtub. In short, this was a fairly up-scale hotel room, the same to be found in most cities of the Country. What it lacked in charm, it made up with functionality; or so we thought.

We were using reward points left over from the corporate world for one of the two nights of our stay. This is where the trouble started. We had paid for our second night as a deposit, with the first to be paid for by the reward. The cost of the room was quoted as $99 plus tax. When we checked in, however, the desk clerk advised us that we would need to check-out and then check-in again on the next day. They said that they could not guarantee that we would be able to stay in the room, as room assignments for check-ins are made each morning. We advised them that they needed to figure it out, but we were not moving rooms. The next day we did, in fact have to check-out and then check-in again, but somehow they managed to keep us in the room. We then went to breakfast in the dining room. This was a holiday, so they were not serving a buffet. We were seated, and then waited about a half-hour for a server to bring the menus and coffee. Overall, the breakfast was sub-par and the service very poor. When we finally checked out, the desk clerk told us that since we stayed in the same room, which apparently was a higher level than the rate quoted us, we had to pay an additional $50, despite the fact that our written confirmation was clear. We, of course, refused to pay, and the desk clerk said she would discuss it with the manager. After we left, they just charged the difference to our card anyway. We are still waiting for the credit that they promised, but the credit card company will reverse the charge if the hotel does not do so.

The long and short is that in the battle between hotels and bed and breakfast inns, we win, hands down! It is not about luxury rooms, amenities, or discounted rates. It remains true that personal service, quaintness, and charm will win out every time. It is not just about the room. While our room was perfectly adequate, and in fact, in some respects a clear upgrade, it was sterile, lacking any “charm” or individuality. This room could have been found anywhere in the United States. Close your eyes, and you may not know where you are for a minute. One of the things about old house syndrome at bed and breakfast inns, particularly those in older, historical buildings, is that the sounds of the Inn at night, the groans of the boiler or creaks and pops of the radiators, can impact your sleep, at least on the first night. Well try those hotel thru-wall heaters which make a huge noise as they cycle on and off all night. I’ll take charm every time.

The most important thing that we have to offer in our small part of the Hospitality Industry is the personal service that our innkeepers give to their guests on a daily basis. This is what clearly sets us apart from the much larger hotel business, and the one thing that will help us survive the tough times to come. The more the economy gets worse, the more respite, peace and good old fashioned hospitality will be needed to provide our guests with a retreat to recharge their batteries. Do not ever underestimate what we have to offer the traveling public. It is something that hotels can never supply, no matter how many concierges they have. The hotels of the world will compete by price to stay alive. The bed and breakfast industry has a magic wand and can better compete with hospitality, charm, and personal service. For all times, this is what differentiates us from the hotel business, and what will continue to make us successful in the years to come. What we need now is to spread the world that we are open for business as usual, and that means “Hospitality” with a capital “H.”